Alokaya Counselling Centre | The Family Planning Association of Sri Lanka

Alokaya Counselling Centre

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Life is full of challenges and adversities one can face in personal, professional or social environments. Some people meet every challenge or setback with confidence, but it is possible that all of us, at some point, will need that extra support.

We may find ourselves dealing with things like job stress, job loss, experiencing feelings of being trapped in a relationship, enduring a violent one, and coping with boredom and low motivation. Is pain or trauma experienced in your past impacting life now?

Are you experiencing extreme feelings such as anger, shame, guilt, sadness, or loneliness affecting your daily life?

You may be handling these situations and feelings with your knowledge and understanding; however, professional intervention can help you deal with these issues more objectively and effectively. Seeking support is the right step for you.

The Alokaya Counselling Centre allows you to unpack your concerns, clarify your choices, and use specialist therapeutic tools designed to create positive change in all areas of life. We are committed and bound to protecting the confidentiality of all your information.

Speak to our professional
counsellor

Mrs. Hema Ranawake     Assistant Director

*Virtual counselling sessions are also available via MS Teams platform.

Premarital Counselling: Building a Strong Foundation for Marriage

The premarital counselling service helps couples lay the groundwork for a lasting marriage in a supportive, safe space. Sessions cover key topics to strengthen your relationship.

What We cover:

  • Communication skills – Express and listen effectively.
  • Conflict resolution – Handle disagreements constructively.
  • Financial planning – Align on budgeting and financial goals.
  • Family dynamics – Manage relationships with family members.
  • Role expectations – Clarify responsibilities and expectations.
  • Shared values – Identify common beliefs and goals.
  • Future aspirations – Align on long-term plans.

Benefits of counselling:

  • Build emotional intimacy and trust
  • Set realistic expectations for marriage.
  • Improve conflict management and communication.
  • Strengthen your commitment and partnership.

Premarital counselling is an investment in your future, offering the tools and insights needed for a healthy, lasting marriage. It helps couples navigate life’s challenges together, building a strong foundation for a lifetime of love, commitment, and support.

Marital Counselling: Strengthening Your Relationship

The marital counselling service helps couples navigate challenges and strengthen their relationship. Whether you're newly married or have been together for years, our service offers a safe, nonjudgmental space to address concerns.

What we focus on:

  • Communication – Improve how you talk and listen to each other.
  • Conflict resolution – Find healthy ways to resolve disagreements.
  • Rebuilding trust – Address issues like infidelity and regain confidence.
  • Stress management – Learn to handle external pressures together.
  • Emotional intimacy – Deepen your connection and understanding.

How we help:

  • Uncover the root causes of issues and gain insight into each other’s perspectives.
  • Develop strategies for positive change and effective problem-solving.
  • Use evidence-based techniques to tackle challenges, from everyday stress to more complex issues like financial strain or family dynamics.

Benefits of marital counselling:

  • Renew your commitment and rediscover your bond.
  • Build a more harmonious and resilient partnership.
  • Strengthen trust, communication, and empathy.
  • Navigate challenges with greater strength and unity.

Marital counselling empowers couples to rebuild their connection, creating a healthier, happier marriage. With the right tools and support, couples can move forward with greater understanding and a renewed commitment to each other.

Sexual Counselling: Enabling Intimacy and Connection

The sexual counselling service is designed to help individuals and couples address and improve their sexual well-being, intimacy, and connection. We provide a safe, confidential space to explore issues related to sexual health, performance concerns, changes in desire, and other intimate challenges.

What we focus on:

  • Sexual health – Address concerns about sexual function or dysfunction.
  • Intimacy – Rebuild closeness and emotional connection.
  • Desire and arousal – Navigate changes in sexual desire or interest.
  • Communication – Overcome barriers to open discussions about sexual needs.
  • Emotional dynamics – Understand how emotional factors may affect intimacy.

How we help:

  • Our trained counsellors use a compassionate, nonjudgmental approach to identify underlying factors impacting your sexual relationships, such as stress, medical conditions, or emotional issues.
  • We work to understand each partner’s needs and expectations, fostering a balanced and fulfilling sexual relationship.
  • Through guided conversations, practical exercises, and evidence-based strategies, we empower clients to express their needs openly, enhance communication, and rebuild intimacy.

Whether you’re dealing with specific concerns such as sexual dysfunction or seeking ways to enhance your intimate connection, our counsellors provide the tools and support needed to foster a healthy, proactive sexual relationship.

Benefits of sexual counselling:

  • Address sexual concerns confidently and constructively.
  • Improve communication and emotional intimacy.
  • Overcome obstacles and deepen the emotional bond.
  • Achieve a positive and fulfilling sexual experience.

Sexual counselling helps couples overcome challenges, strengthen their connection, and achieve a mutually fulfilling sexual relationship that enhances their overall partnership.

Counselling for Psychological Concerns

The counselling service for psychological concerns provides support for individuals facing a wide range of mental health challenges. We offer a safe, confidential space where clients can openly explore their concerns and work toward overcoming obstacles.

Common issues we address:

  • Stress, anxiety, and depression
  • Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and phobias
  • Somatoform disorders and adjustment difficulties
  • Relationship and interpersonal issues

How we help:

  • Personalized approach – We tailor our counselling to each client’s unique situation.
  • Evidence-based techniques – Including cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and solution-focused strategies.
  • Emotional and mental management – Empower clients to manage emotions and change unhelpful thought patterns.
  • Relationship support – Improve communication, address conflicts, and build healthier connections.

Whether you're struggling with anxiety, navigating life transitions, or working through interpersonal challenges, we provide tailored support to help you heal and grow.

Educational Counseling: Supporting Your Academic Journey

The educational counselling service is designed to support students at every stage of their academic journey. Our experienced counsellors work closely with students to understand their unique learning needs, strengths, and challenges.

What we offer:

  • Academic advising – Helping students make informed decisions about their education.
  • Study skills development – Improve efficiency and effectiveness in learning.
  • Time management – Learn how to organize and prioritize tasks.
  • Support for academic challenges – Assistance with learning disabilities, anxiety, and stress management.
  • Goal setting – Help students set realistic academic goals and create action plans to achieve them.

We also focus on enhancing study habits, improving motivation, and building confidence to ensure students not only succeed academically but also grow personally.

Counselling for Work-Related Stress

We offer specialized support to help individuals manage work-related stress, which can impact both personal well-being and professional performance. We work with clients to identify and address the sources of stress in their work environment; whether it's due to workload, interpersonal relationships, or job insecurity.

What we provide:

  • Personalized counselling – A safe, confidential space to express concerns and emotions.
  • Evidence-based strategies – Develop effective coping mechanisms and resilience skills.
  • Stress management techniques – Learn mindfulness practices, time management, and relaxation methods.
  • Action plans – Tailored plans to improve productivity and reduce anxiety.

Our goal is to promote mental health in the workplace, helping individuals achieve a healthier work-life balance, improve job satisfaction, and enhance overall quality of life.

Counselling for Adjustment Issues

We provide support for individuals experiencing adjustment issues that often arise during major life transitions. Whether you're moving to a new place, starting a new job, entering college, or coping with significant changes like divorce or loss, these transitions can bring feelings of anxiety, uncertainty, and emotional distress.

What we offer:

  • Safe, confidential space – Express your concerns and explore your feelings freely.
  • Collaborative approach – Work together to identify challenges and develop personalized coping strategies.
  • Evidence-based techniques – Build resilience and improve emotional well-being.
  • Guidance through change – Navigate life transitions with confidence and clarity.

Our goal is to empower individuals to embrace change, adapt to new situations, and find greater stability and fulfillment during times of transition.

Counselling for Personal Development

We offer a dedicated personal development service to help individuals unlock their full potential and improve their overall quality of life. We believe that personal growth is a lifelong journey.

What we offer:

  • Goal setting – Identify your personal goals, values, and areas for improvement.
  • Confidence building – Boost self-confidence and self-esteem.
  • Communication skills – Improve your ability to express yourself and connect with others.
  • Emotional intelligence – Enhance your emotional awareness and regulation.
  • Personalized strategies – Use evidence-based techniques to promote self-awareness and lasting change.

Our service empowers individuals to overcome obstacles, embrace new challenges, and cultivate a positive mindset for a more fulfilling and balanced life.

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